Hello once again this is the one and only Quiet Mouse. On this crazy Monday morning I have a few choice thoughts I'd like to share. As no doubt you have read the above title to the blog I'm sure you have no doubt what this blog will be about... let's get started why don't we...
Why do humans feel the need to talk so much? In my opinion it's because people are afraid of silence. Some just want to voice their opinions. Others just enjoy hearing the sound of his/her own voice. Some just lack the mental clarity to actually THINK BEFORE speaking in a CONSCIOUS and intelectual manner.
The mental clutter often leads to misunderstandings and frustration as the INTENT of the message is lost in the clutter of verbal diarrhea, unclear and unconscious. There is a part of the Buddhist philosophy that is about thinking clearly about speech and not just when to speak but also when NOT TO speak as well.
In modern society, however, it is seen as a sign of weakness if one doesn't choose follow the crowd. Intelligence and forethought are often regarded in a negative regard because of this.
Of course the individuals with diarrhea of the mouth naturally have to talk over others often feeling their thoughts and opinions outweigh those of others in close proximity. Communication is strained because nearly everyone thinks that their opinions are more valid than someone else's. I am just choosing to shut my mouth and not say anything at all as the message is clearly misconstrued and forgotten about being, those choosing to disrespect, talk over me, and answer questions FOR me rather than allowing me, right wrong or otherwise to my own mind. Apparently there are some individuals out there that believe me to be incompetent of mind and body. I am quickly losing respect for these individuals. I don't have to call out names, events, dates, or times to make this point. It is without doubt, in my opinion, that I am not a well respected person and perhaps that is my own fault as I am quick to see the not-so-silver lining on the abhorrent behavior of my fellow man and woman. I am not perfect. I NEVER have attempted or claimed to be such. No one is perfect but this will never stop me from having and holding those around me to a higher level of expectation. Every single day I suffer from trying to understand and deal with people. I have failed because I do not and cannot relate the insane and asinine thoughts and behavior paterns of others. I have failed because despite my best efforts I am no further in my goal of having positive interpersonal relationships with others. Part of me feels defeated and beat down. I feel as if I am unable to speak to others in a positive and meaningful manner without offending others, mainly because I have NO INTEREST in maintaining the status quo or placating others to make them feel better, often at my own expense of mental wellness. C'est la vie. I cannot change this. I only wish to relieve these feelings of stress and frustration.
So I choose to leave you with this. I hope that others may learn what I know, but likely that will be a futile wish as well. All I can really expect is more of the same old shit and it is difficult to stay hopeful and positive when I see and experience the endless supply of wasted energy fleeting into the universe. My advice... don't speak unless spoken to. That thought alone might just save a bit of heartache and negativity. This has beenthe one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect.
Why do humans feel the need to talk so much? In my opinion it's because people are afraid of silence. Some just want to voice their opinions. Others just enjoy hearing the sound of his/her own voice. Some just lack the mental clarity to actually THINK BEFORE speaking in a CONSCIOUS and intelectual manner.
The mental clutter often leads to misunderstandings and frustration as the INTENT of the message is lost in the clutter of verbal diarrhea, unclear and unconscious. There is a part of the Buddhist philosophy that is about thinking clearly about speech and not just when to speak but also when NOT TO speak as well.
In modern society, however, it is seen as a sign of weakness if one doesn't choose follow the crowd. Intelligence and forethought are often regarded in a negative regard because of this.
Of course the individuals with diarrhea of the mouth naturally have to talk over others often feeling their thoughts and opinions outweigh those of others in close proximity. Communication is strained because nearly everyone thinks that their opinions are more valid than someone else's. I am just choosing to shut my mouth and not say anything at all as the message is clearly misconstrued and forgotten about being, those choosing to disrespect, talk over me, and answer questions FOR me rather than allowing me, right wrong or otherwise to my own mind. Apparently there are some individuals out there that believe me to be incompetent of mind and body. I am quickly losing respect for these individuals. I don't have to call out names, events, dates, or times to make this point. It is without doubt, in my opinion, that I am not a well respected person and perhaps that is my own fault as I am quick to see the not-so-silver lining on the abhorrent behavior of my fellow man and woman. I am not perfect. I NEVER have attempted or claimed to be such. No one is perfect but this will never stop me from having and holding those around me to a higher level of expectation. Every single day I suffer from trying to understand and deal with people. I have failed because I do not and cannot relate the insane and asinine thoughts and behavior paterns of others. I have failed because despite my best efforts I am no further in my goal of having positive interpersonal relationships with others. Part of me feels defeated and beat down. I feel as if I am unable to speak to others in a positive and meaningful manner without offending others, mainly because I have NO INTEREST in maintaining the status quo or placating others to make them feel better, often at my own expense of mental wellness. C'est la vie. I cannot change this. I only wish to relieve these feelings of stress and frustration.
So I choose to leave you with this. I hope that others may learn what I know, but likely that will be a futile wish as well. All I can really expect is more of the same old shit and it is difficult to stay hopeful and positive when I see and experience the endless supply of wasted energy fleeting into the universe. My advice... don't speak unless spoken to. That thought alone might just save a bit of heartache and negativity. This has beenthe one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect.
No comments:
Post a Comment