Namaste and welcome my friends, family, and fellow knowledge seekers to another posting for the Quiet Mouse Strikes Back. Let's jump right down the rabbit hole, Alice, and see just how deep we can go.
Only in this vain and superficial society do we continually put down one another... especially our beautiful women. One might even go as far as saying our society/economy has been built not only on the exploitation of the citizens, but also on negative self image. I believe this, because at the core, happy people are not obsessed with materialism or about how society feels about them, in general.
How does this relate to the above topic? Women spend billions of dollars per year on things like clothes, makeup, and dieting. Argue all you like, but I'm convinced that the majority of female spending on these, among other beauty items, comes from self esteem or negative self image issues which are only rehashed by the corporate industry in a repetitive cycle.
First let's look at the
clothes. Men's clothing is often a fraction of the price of women's clothing. Women are more willing to over-pay based on brand name clothing or to shop at a particular store, failing to realize those clothes were made in an Asian sweat-shop for pennies on the dollar compared to the cost of making them. Another thing about women's clothing is that the less you get, the more it seems to costs, like lingerie, for example. Plus, tiny boobs get all the attention; fancy materials, cute designs, and sexy, lacy cuts which purports the myth that only skinny girls can be sexy. THIS IS JUST UNTRUE!
Accentuate what you've got and simply downplay the parts that make you feel less confident or self-conscious.
Next let's talk about
makeup. Makeup was created for movie starlets to appear as having flawless skin under hot lights in front on a movie camera. It was never meant for the average woman consumer, but was sold under the guise that women NEED this product to be beautiful. Makeup clogs pores requiring MORE chemicals to remove. It ages skin prematurely making the face look leathery which requires the vicious cycle of MORE MAKEUP to cover up (which MOST MEN find incredibly UNATTRACTIVE). Less is more. These products are being sold as a salve to alleviate low self esteem in women who are already beautiful, but fall for the lie of corporations and a FAKE-ASS SOCIETY that tells our women they are ugly. And so many women DO feel ugly on the outside. AGAIN, THIS IS UNTRUE!
Less is more. This is obviously a personal preference, I just urge women not to go nuts on it; a little lip gloss and some eye liner is all most women need.
Lastly, I have a big issue with the
dieting women do to impress unrealistic societal standards that are PURPOSELY MEANT to keep you feeling bad, because happy people DON'T NEED to buy materialistic products to feel better about self. The key is being HEALTHY. It should be more about health than it is a beauty image. Not every woman is meant to be a size 2. Just saying...
Everywhere you go there are gyms, restaurants, grocery stores, and online ads trying to get you and I to buy into the low self esteem bandwagon and purchase THEIR product or service that will make you happy if you only buy _____________ (enter product here).
Here's the problem. People are lazy, greedy, selfish, and under-educated. Plain and simple. Corporations take advantage of this fact to exploit consumers into buying not just their product, but self-image that is in line with the continual buying of said product(s).
There are hundreds of diet plans out there for you to try, and most likely fail. Failure in dieting is often caused by the food itself, filled with refined sugars, artificial sweeteners, processed carbs, and fake diet ingredients that cause weight gain, not loss. This is especially true in a lot of diet foods, but especially diet soda that causes insulin and cortisol spikes.
Also, THERE IS NO DIET THAT CAN OUTDO A NO-EXERCISE LIFESTYLE!!!
You are what you eat. Garbage in equals garbage out. Like most things in life, you get out what you put in. Too many people are looking for a quick and easy fix when there rarely is one. It didn't take overnight to get overweight.
Now, bringing this in full circle, fluffy chicks need loving too. I once was told "beauty is only skin deep, but ugly is to the bone." This means that looks can change. Just go to your high school reunion if you need proof. The jocks are fat and bald and the popular girls all had a bunch of kids and now are fluffy. This is not a reflection of self, but you get the point. Life happens. Sometimes we are in bad relationships or bad routines. Sometimes we eat out of depression. Even so, women can STILL be fluffy AND sexy. Sexy has more to do with self-image, self-esteem, and confidence than physical looks that CAN and DO change with age.
The point is that if you're fluffy or fat, you have two choices:
1) Rock that shit! Shake what your mama gave you. Doll it up, wear some stockings, and be proud of who you are, you sexy ass woman.
2) Lose some weight, but if you're gonna do it... make sure you do it right, not just follow the herd with fad diets that will leave you tired, frustrated, and relapsing into bad habits and weight gain, rather than loss.
Confidence is sexy. Rock what ya got. If you got little boobies, rock them boobies. If they're big 'uns rock them bitches too. Same goes if you got some ass or a tummy. Rock that shit. Guys love it when a woman KNOWS she's the shit and rocks it anyway. Fuck what them skinny bitches think if you're fluffy. Rock that shit. They're just jelly of your peanut butter.
There are plenty of dudes out here that like fluffy women too with those hips, boobs, ass, and thighs that get those boy's eyeballs popping out their heads. It's ironic but true that men ALWAYS cheat on them skinny bitches with fluffy girls too, just saying...
Fluffy girls, in my experience, also give THE BEST HEAD! I personally married the women with the two best blow jobs I've ever had and they are BOTH FLUFFY!
So fellas, this is important too. Get in the game, bros! It's our job as men to build up our women, help them with their self esteem, you know? I promise you that looks change, but a good personality won't. MOST of the skinny women I've ever met are self-obsessed, vain bitches that just lay there during sex, won't give head ("cause it's gross"), but want YOU the man to go oyster diving, and have that "look at me" or "what can you do for me?" attitude.
Fluffy girls often have more love to give, more to prove, and an over-all better attitude about sex and interpersonal relationships toward men.
I KNOW that these issues with society aren't going to change over night. The media and corporations aren't going to stop attempting to sell you and I on their product, their image, their bull shit. We just have to stand up and say NO! Stay sexy all you fluffy women out there. Be a voice of reason to our daughters and teach them self love, not self loathing; self esteem, not self hate; confidence, not insecurity.
Sexy is not just reserved for the young and skinny either.
This has been the one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect. Confidence. Sexiness.