To whomever may be reading this, welcome to another edition of the Quiet Mouse Strikes Back, a blog about pretty much whatever is on my mind... If you're reading this, I might just be talking about something which you may or may not be able to relate to. So without any further ado, lets jump right in and explore this topic.
Ladies and gentlemen, no matter what age will understand what it is like to feel the anguish of boredom. Many of our life woes come from the pursuit of something as simple as trying to find interesting ways to fill in the gap left from being alone, bored, and desperate for attention. The problem comes in in HOW we try to fill that perceived loss of intimate interpersonal relationships.
Before I go too far, I want to digress for a moment and ask you to think about that time when you are so worried about WHAT ISN'T, rather than WHAT IS. When you eventually get to where you are supposed to be, wouldn't it have been better to spend that alone time working on the SELF? If we are really looking so desperately for a new relationship (or pining over a relationship that ISN'T really working...) wouldn't it be better to be the BEST version of YOURSELF as possible?!? Cause really the truth is that, despite what many think, you're NEVER done learning and growing throughout life... not until you are flat-lined and brain-dead. In lieu of what I wrote above in parenthesis, I would like to also mention the fact that life is SHORT. That being said, are you really so desperate for attention that you would stay in a horrible relationship that is so unhealthy and stressful??? Now you may say something like this: "But I have so much time invested in this relationship..." ( Or something lame like that.)
In which I reply... ARE YOU FUCKING MENTAL?!?
Your fear of loneliness is holding you back from the real possibility of actually being happy.
At times we have ALL done things that we regret in the heat of a moment that weren't really in our best interests. But boredom, as we learn from time to time ISN'T reality, but is based upon a negative perception of time that could be better spent. I have seen a lot lately, especially in young women, how desperate for attention can be so detrimental to an otherwise healthy and happy person. Young women are often so desperate for attention that they act like complete whores, believing somehow that fucking is equal to an emotional reaction of significance. I have stated before and I will say it again, if you act like and treat yourself like a whore, that's the exact reaction you will receive in return, which only perpetuates the loneliness, boredom, and further desperation. It is really sad, especially since there are quite literally BILLIONS of people on the planet... but isn't it really in our human nature to seek after the things we cannot have? If we were more open and honest with ourselves first and foremost, it might be easier to have healthier and more positive interpersonal relationships with other adults.
Childhood, as we all know is not without it's own set of woes. Faced with 18 years of boredom it's a wonder how so many people have turned into fucked up adults. Life is difficult, which is why I find it ironic how many people are WILLINGLY putting themselves through misery. Being alone does NOT mean that you have to be lonely. YES, the physical interaction with another human being is AWESOME! However, if we are to truly call ourselves enlightened creatures, greater than the others in the animal kingdom, then don't we have to ACTUALLY think and behave on a higher level than just dog eat dog?
I can think of LOTS of great ways to alleviate boredom. First and foremost is to VOLUNTEER. If you've got time to sit around and feel sorry for yourself, you also have time to get a HOBBY, a job, or ANYTHING! Join a sports team, read and educate yourself, get a gym membership, or pay it forward to others with good deeds. The BETTER you make YOUR LIFE, the more positive energy you will attract to yourself and others (especially the other gender) will naturally WANT to be around you. This positive energy is opposite of the negativity of being depressed by the boredom and loneliness.
This is YOUR LIFE!! Get excited and go out and LIVE IT!! Don't let silliness get in the way of your happiness. Trivialities that get people so worked up are exactly that: TRIVIALITIES, plain and simple. What are you going to spend the time of your life on? Negative? or Positive? Life happens around us all the time, but some things we DO have a choice about. My star is rising... how bout you join me on the way UP? NOTHING is going to keep ME down...
This has been the one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect. Honesty. Patience.
Ladies and gentlemen, no matter what age will understand what it is like to feel the anguish of boredom. Many of our life woes come from the pursuit of something as simple as trying to find interesting ways to fill in the gap left from being alone, bored, and desperate for attention. The problem comes in in HOW we try to fill that perceived loss of intimate interpersonal relationships.
Before I go too far, I want to digress for a moment and ask you to think about that time when you are so worried about WHAT ISN'T, rather than WHAT IS. When you eventually get to where you are supposed to be, wouldn't it have been better to spend that alone time working on the SELF? If we are really looking so desperately for a new relationship (or pining over a relationship that ISN'T really working...) wouldn't it be better to be the BEST version of YOURSELF as possible?!? Cause really the truth is that, despite what many think, you're NEVER done learning and growing throughout life... not until you are flat-lined and brain-dead. In lieu of what I wrote above in parenthesis, I would like to also mention the fact that life is SHORT. That being said, are you really so desperate for attention that you would stay in a horrible relationship that is so unhealthy and stressful??? Now you may say something like this: "But I have so much time invested in this relationship..." ( Or something lame like that.)
In which I reply... ARE YOU FUCKING MENTAL?!?
Your fear of loneliness is holding you back from the real possibility of actually being happy.
At times we have ALL done things that we regret in the heat of a moment that weren't really in our best interests. But boredom, as we learn from time to time ISN'T reality, but is based upon a negative perception of time that could be better spent. I have seen a lot lately, especially in young women, how desperate for attention can be so detrimental to an otherwise healthy and happy person. Young women are often so desperate for attention that they act like complete whores, believing somehow that fucking is equal to an emotional reaction of significance. I have stated before and I will say it again, if you act like and treat yourself like a whore, that's the exact reaction you will receive in return, which only perpetuates the loneliness, boredom, and further desperation. It is really sad, especially since there are quite literally BILLIONS of people on the planet... but isn't it really in our human nature to seek after the things we cannot have? If we were more open and honest with ourselves first and foremost, it might be easier to have healthier and more positive interpersonal relationships with other adults.
Childhood, as we all know is not without it's own set of woes. Faced with 18 years of boredom it's a wonder how so many people have turned into fucked up adults. Life is difficult, which is why I find it ironic how many people are WILLINGLY putting themselves through misery. Being alone does NOT mean that you have to be lonely. YES, the physical interaction with another human being is AWESOME! However, if we are to truly call ourselves enlightened creatures, greater than the others in the animal kingdom, then don't we have to ACTUALLY think and behave on a higher level than just dog eat dog?
I can think of LOTS of great ways to alleviate boredom. First and foremost is to VOLUNTEER. If you've got time to sit around and feel sorry for yourself, you also have time to get a HOBBY, a job, or ANYTHING! Join a sports team, read and educate yourself, get a gym membership, or pay it forward to others with good deeds. The BETTER you make YOUR LIFE, the more positive energy you will attract to yourself and others (especially the other gender) will naturally WANT to be around you. This positive energy is opposite of the negativity of being depressed by the boredom and loneliness.
This is YOUR LIFE!! Get excited and go out and LIVE IT!! Don't let silliness get in the way of your happiness. Trivialities that get people so worked up are exactly that: TRIVIALITIES, plain and simple. What are you going to spend the time of your life on? Negative? or Positive? Life happens around us all the time, but some things we DO have a choice about. My star is rising... how bout you join me on the way UP? NOTHING is going to keep ME down...
This has been the one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect. Honesty. Patience.
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