Post Holiday Thoughts

Welcome back once again to the Quiet Mouse Strikes Back. If you haven't joined me in a while, please read back some of my near 200 blogs, feel free to post comments or share the links with others. Thank you. I'm gonna keep this one short and sweet, so let's go jump right in... Call me a Scrooge if you want, but I think the holidays are kinda lame now that I'm an adult rather than a simple minded child.

Moving on, I'm gonna make this pretty quick and say simply:
I'M TIRED OF HEARING A LOT OF PEOPLE BITCH AND COMPLAIN ABOUT WHAT THEY DIDN'T GET FOR PRESENTS OVER THE HOLIDAY SEASON RATHER THAN BEING THANKFUL FOR WHAT THEY DID GET!!!
FUCK YOU!
I personally DON'T believe that the true spirit of Christmas or the holidays, in general, is one of greed, selfishness, and gluttony. It SHOULD be about FAMILY, TOGETHERNESS, and LOVE. BUT... since we DO live in a society of materialism, why can't people just be happy that they got SOMETHING, rather than NOTHING. I don't know what alternate universe that these whiny, bitchy BRATS think they are in, but HERE in this one, 1 of anything is ALWAYS better than 0, zip, zilch, nada, or nothing. Christmas is NOT a time to be hateful and angry because you didn't get some selfish stupid piece of material SHIT!!
I don't care what you wanted... shit in one hand and want in the other... see which one fills up first. FUCK YOU if you didn't get what you wanted... neither did I. You're bitching and complaining about what you didn't get, well, I was raised in a family that didn't really participate in holidays, like ANY of them. I got ONE present from my fiancee for Christmas and I am damn happy to get that one thing, because I KNOW it came with love.
All the greedy, selfish toads out there that are complaining cause they didn't get enough presents or money that they have been COVETING OVER missed the point and can EAT A DICK... after all it IS better to give than receive.
This brings me on to my next topic...

I think part of the reason the holidays suck as an adult is because I see so much materialism flaunted, and it has become a contest of who buys the better presents gets the most love and attention. This is both stupid and lame because the problem is really started by parents who lie to their children. THERE IS NO SANTA CLAUS!!! Parents NEED to tell their unappreciative children the TRUTH, heaven forbid, that THEY worked their ASSES OFF to buy all the x-box's, play stations, Wii U, Ipod/phones, toys, gift cards, ETC... NOT SOME FAT ASS, SWEAT SHOP RUNNING CREEP WHO ALLEGEDLY LIVES AT THE NORTH POLE, STALKING CHILDREN LIKE A PEDOPHILE PRIEST FROM THE ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH.

So, despite what you may think, I had a good holiday. I cooked dinner with love for my family, spent quality time hanging out and doing family things... the way I think it should be... I'm not telling others what to do or what to think or how to act... all I'm saying is that it IS okay to be a little LESS selfish and materialistic around the holidays and actually be THANKFUL and feel blessed for what you DO get rather than the constant whining about what you DIDN'T get. Tell your kids the truth that YOU bought the presents. Let's END this whole Santa Claus bullshit once and for all. I don't understand why people WANT to lie and live in this false reality of bullshit, greed, and materialism by keeping this Santa Claus MYTH going. REALLY?!?
Well, whatever, this is the one and ONLY Quiet Mouse. Let's make NEXT YEAR one more positive and about what is REALLY important... blow jobs! No just kidding... FAMILY, TOGETHERNESS, AND LOVE IS WHAT'S REALLY IMPORTANT, NOT SANTA, GREED, MATERIALISM, OR SELFISHNESS. Work hard, play hard, and enjoy your family. Life is too short for elaborate lies and deceptions. Tell your family you love them EVERY DAY. There are 364 days a year BESIDES CHRISTMAS... how about we be better ALL of those days and NOT JUST ONE that has been pimped out to sell you shit you don't need to impress people you don't like... and people want to give some IMAGINARY FICTIONAL CHARACTER all the credit?!? Bah humbug.

Boredom, Loneliness, and Desperation

To whomever may be reading this, welcome to another edition of the Quiet Mouse Strikes Back, a blog about pretty much whatever is on my mind... If you're reading this, I might just be talking about something which you may or may not be able to relate to. So without any further ado, lets jump right in and explore this topic.

Ladies and gentlemen, no matter what age will understand what it is like to feel the anguish of boredom. Many of our life woes come from the pursuit of something as simple as trying to find interesting ways to fill in the gap left from being alone, bored, and desperate for attention. The problem comes in in HOW we try to fill that perceived loss of intimate interpersonal relationships.
Before I go too far, I want to digress for a moment and ask you to think about that time when you are so worried about WHAT ISN'T, rather than WHAT IS. When you eventually get to where you are supposed to be, wouldn't it have been better to spend that alone time working on the SELF? If we are really looking so desperately for a new relationship (or pining over a relationship that ISN'T really working...) wouldn't it be better to be the BEST version of YOURSELF as possible?!? Cause really the truth is that, despite what many think, you're NEVER done learning and growing throughout life... not until you are flat-lined and brain-dead. In lieu of what I wrote above in parenthesis, I would like to also mention the fact that life is SHORT. That being said, are you really so desperate for attention that you would stay in a horrible relationship that is so unhealthy and stressful??? Now you may say something like this: "But I have so much time invested in this relationship..." ( Or something lame like that.)
In which I reply... ARE YOU FUCKING MENTAL?!?
Your fear of loneliness is holding you back from the real possibility of actually being happy.

At times we have ALL done things that we regret in the heat of a moment that weren't really in our best interests. But boredom, as we learn from time to time ISN'T reality, but is based upon a negative perception of time that could be better spent. I have seen a lot lately, especially in young women, how desperate for attention can be so detrimental to an otherwise healthy and happy person. Young women are often so desperate for attention that they act like complete whores, believing somehow that fucking is equal to an emotional reaction of significance. I have stated before and I will say it again, if you act like and treat yourself like a whore, that's the exact reaction you will receive in return, which only perpetuates the loneliness, boredom, and further desperation. It is really sad, especially since there are quite literally BILLIONS of people on the planet... but isn't it really in our human nature to seek after the things we cannot have? If we were more open and honest with  ourselves first and foremost, it might be easier to have healthier and more positive interpersonal relationships with other adults.
Childhood, as we all know is not without it's own set of woes. Faced with 18 years of boredom it's a wonder how so many people have turned into fucked up adults. Life is difficult, which is why I find it ironic how many people are WILLINGLY putting themselves through misery. Being alone does NOT mean that you have to be lonely. YES, the physical interaction with another human being is AWESOME! However, if we are to truly call ourselves enlightened creatures, greater than the others in the animal kingdom, then don't we have to ACTUALLY think and behave on a higher level than just dog eat dog?
I can think of LOTS of great ways to alleviate boredom. First and foremost is to VOLUNTEER. If you've got time to sit around and feel sorry for yourself, you also have time to get a HOBBY, a job, or ANYTHING! Join a sports team, read and educate yourself, get a gym membership, or pay it forward to others with good deeds. The BETTER you make YOUR LIFE, the more positive energy you will attract to yourself and others (especially the other gender) will naturally WANT to be around you. This positive energy is opposite of the negativity of being depressed by the boredom and loneliness.

This is YOUR LIFE!! Get excited and go out and LIVE IT!! Don't let silliness get in the way of your happiness. Trivialities that get people so worked up are exactly that: TRIVIALITIES, plain and simple. What are you going to spend the time of your life on? Negative? or Positive? Life happens around us all the time, but some things we DO have a choice about. My star is rising... how bout you join me on the way UP? NOTHING is going to keep ME down...
This has been the one and only Quiet Mouse.
Peace. Love. Respect. Honesty. Patience.